update!

1. It's been 5 months since I was married
2. I married a jurno
3. I have a lot of leisure time, since I have to wait for my husband evry single night
4. I do a lot of cooking lately
5. I try to do painting recently
6. I get a new job today!!

So..to sum up, I'm a happy big girl. ;)

the day after...

17 Agustus 09

Selamat Ulang tahun ke 64  Indonesiaku!!!

Aug 18, 09

is the day after the long weekend..meaning: back to the routine after the long sleep on long weekend

i get: 

- pain in my neck. i cant turn my neck! maybe it's because the wrong style of sleep :)

- to go to my skin doctor again to change the bandage after the surgery

- my father and mother go for vacation for a week :( meaning: no proper foods=junk food all weekdays, no proper clothes,etc etc

from the wedding with love

warning!
you might be laugh
or cry
or stunned
but...no... you will be laugh to see this
okay..here you go, Enjoy!


yep..it's me
nope..it's not my wedding
;)
i look like a javanese girl!! in which I AM heheheh

about man and woman

my boyfriend watch a priest's preach on tv one night and then he called me the next day, telling me about what he heard.

the preach was about man and woman, husband and wife life.

here is the summary...

about woman

there are four important things in woman's life as a wife:

1.  affection

2. conversation

3. honesty and openess

4. financial security

number 1-3 is easy, but number 4 is the most crucial thing because it can make a husband-wife relationship ended. 

and then the question is: if it's really important and crucial, why it's on #4? shouldn't it be the #1??

i've been thinking about this, and i guess i know why. if it's the #1, then the woman is a material girl. And having a relationship is not about material things. but why is it crucial? because when things number 1-3 is being fulfilled, #4 is not really important. BUT if the woman feels unsatisfied bout things 1-3, factor #4 gonna be a good reason to trigger a fight.

in my opinion, a woman really cares so much about how man treat us. and we wish they treat us well, and it can't be replace by material only.

about man

four important thing for man:

1. sexual

2. wife as a fun friend

3. beautiful wife

4. peacefulness

hmmm..no comment for this :)

my grieving

wanna say so much, but then i go speechless..

i just really really feel sorry for the lost 

really feel sad too

i am sorry we never have the chance to know each other

she's the one

she may not pretty or even slim

she may not well educated or even run a business

she may not rich of money 

but..

she does the beads of my wedding dress

she sew clothes so well

she cooks meals, prepares my morning tea and breakfast and even my lunch every single day

she takes care of me when i ill

she always there for me

yes..she is the one and only

my lovely mom..

can't believe my life without you

can't believe leaving you to begin a new life with a guy i've only known for six years

can't believe i shed my tears while writing this

why oh why??

"why nice couch and coffee??"

it's because every weekend my boyfriend and i love to sit in a couch with two cup of coffees and talk about everything that happens during the weekdays.

the picture above is taken from designbrothers.wordpress.com.

and why it should be the couch from the friends series?

because i LOVE the series!! and my dream is sitting on it with my beloved people, talking and laughing about everything plus the coffee of course :D